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Written by Keryn O’Neill MA, PGCertEdPsych, Knowledge Manager

Children’s development is affected by their experiences. Some experiences will set them up well to reach their potential, and others will cause stumbling blocks along the way.

Sometimes it’s obvious that children are being harmed by their experiences; maybe they have bruises or broken bones. But these more obvious physical injuries are not the only ways in which children can be harmed. Children, including babies, can be harmed by growing up with family violence; children do not have to be hit, to be hurt.

Childhood exposure to family violence is associated with poor outcomes in many areas of development,1 and creates significant costs, both socially and economically.2

This article focuses on the potential impact of childhood exposure to family violence, now recognised as a particular type of child maltreatment.3 It aims to support those working with children and their whānau to increase understanding about the issues many children face, and the possible long term effects of this. Family violence affects other family members too, but the focus here is on the often underestimated impacts on children.

This is an important discussion because what babies and children experience affects them, their future, and our society. When a child experiences violence, the repercussions affect all of us.

What is family violence?

Definitions of childhood exposure to family violence vary, but usually include seeing, hearing, intervening in, or experiencing the results of physical or sexual assaults between their caregivers,4 sometimes called intimate partner violence.

Importantly, children do not have to actually see the violence occurring in order to be harmed by it; awareness of violence, or potential violence, can also contribute to harm.5

How much of a problem is it in NZ?

NZ family violence figures are available from a variety of sources. Some of these are provided below. These figures should be read and used with caution; different definitions, timeframes and research methods produce different results. However, there is widespread agreement in the literature that the rate of family violence is under-reported.6

  • NZ has the highest prevalence of partner physical or sexual assault among OECD countries.7
  • 70% of family violence in NZ occurs in households that include children.8
  • When those in the Dunedin study were interviewed at the age of 26 years, almost a quarter (24%) reported threats or actual violence from one parent to another while they were growing up.9
  • In one study 14% of the children reported that they had witnessed adults physically hurting others, and almost half had witnessed yelling or swearing at each other, in the previous year alone.10
  • The Christchurch Health & Development study found that almost 40% reported at least one violent act by at least one of their parents.11
  • Responding to family violence consumes 41% of frontline police officers’ time.12
  • 7,262 children were involved in protection order applications in 2016.13

Associated Risk Factors

There are a number of other risk factors which are often associated with children’s exposure to family violence, some of these are outlined below.

Families experiencing violence are often experiencing other risks, including child maltreatment, unstable housing arrangements, and living in areas of higher social deprivation.14 Despite the increased frequency among those facing disadvantage, family violence occurs across all socioeconomic (SES) levels.

Consistent evidence over several decades indicates that drinking alcohol by one or both partners, makes family violence more likely, and likely to be more severe.15 Heavy and binge drinking have been particularly highlighted.16 Both local and international research indicate that alcohol abuse is a leading risk factor for family violence.17

Different forms of violence are strongly connected to each other including suicide, child maltreatment, community violence and family violence. Children experiencing family violence are at increased risk of also being exposed to other forms of violence.18 People who use violence in one situation are more likely to also use violence in other situations.19 For example, adults who are violent towards their partner are more likely to also be violent towards their children.20 This means that children exposed to family violence often experience other forms of child maltreatment as well.21

Violence during pregnancy

Women are more likely to be subject to family violence when they are pregnant, than at other times.22 In fact, almost a third of family violence starts or becomes more severe during pregnancy.23

Prenatal exposure to family violence can affect children in a number of ways. Sometimes these effects are direct such as a physical assault to the stomach. Other effects can be indirect, for example, exposure to the increased stress hormones of their mothers.24

Unsurprisingly, mothers report higher stress levels when subject to violence during their pregnancy, and they also have higher levels of cortisol.25 Prenatal exposure to significant maternal stress can affect babies’ developing stress system and may alter the expression of genes involved in brain development.26 This can have lasting effects on psychological wellbeing, including behaviour difficulties and mental illness.27

Family violence leads to an increased risk of babies being born preterm, of low-birthweight, and being small for gestational age (SGA),28 increasing the risk of poor health outcomes. Other consequences of violence during pregnancy include the baby needing intensive care, miscarriage, and death of the mother.29

It can also negatively affect how mothers see their baby,30 impacting on their interactions and relationship after birth. This is of concern as the quality of relationship a baby has with his or her parents affects many areas of their development.31

Family violence in early childhood

Research on the effects of family violence has largely focused on older children, with less attention to the potential impact on younger children.32 However, as more research occurs it’s become clear that even very young children can be affected.

The ways in which babies and young children are affected depends partly upon the developmental stage they’re at. In infancy, for example, family violence can disrupt babies’ sense of safety in the world and interfere with attachment to their parents.33

During the toddler years, family violence can affect development as a child begins to learn how to manage their emotions and behaviour.34

Babies and toddlers are very dependent upon their caregivers, often their mothers, and are especially vulnerable when their mother is threatened.35 Importantly, they are not only worried by the threat of violence itself but can pick up on their mother or caregiver’s fear and become upset by this.36

Babies and young children under 5 years of age are much more likely to be exposed to violence compared with older children.37 This is likely due to spending more time in their home and in the care of their parents or whānau.38 Young children are much less able to leave the violent situation or protect themselves.39

Babies exposed to family violence are more likely to have problems with eating, and sleeping, as well as increased irritability, screaming, crying, and poorer overall health.41 They may be more fearful and aggressive, or lose skills they had before, for example going to the toilet, or their use of language.42

Violence towards a mother can affect her children indirectly, by altering how she behaves towards them.43 In situations of family violence, parents are likely to be less sensitive to their children’s needs and more hostile towards them.44 Both of these indicate that the child’s needs may not be well met. Whilst it may be obvious that parent-child interactions are disrupted during incidents of violence, it’s important to realise that it also affects their interactions before and after the violence too.45

What aspects of development can be affected?

Exposure to family violence can have adverse effects on child development.46 Some of these effects are described below.

1. Cognitive ability and school achievement

Family violence can impact children’s school attendance and achievement in a number of ways.

Children’s IQ and ability to think and learn can be affected.47 Several studies found links between domestic violence and lower IQs among affected children during their primary school years.48 As with other types of adversity, the greater the exposure, the more likely a child is to be harmed by it. This is known as a dose-response effect.

Even getting to school can be difficult. School attendance can be affected when children stay home to protect their mothers, for example.49 This has important implications because children missing school may start falling behind, and a supportive school environment has the potential to be protective against the risks children are facing elsewhere.

When at school, children’s ability to concentrate and learn may be limited because of the stress of what’s happening at home, or they may not be getting enough sleep.50

If families move often, or children are being cared for by others, they may move from school to school which further disrupts their learning.51

Achievement levels on reading and maths tests, have been found to be lower among those exposed to family violence.52

Some coping strategies that might be helpful in the home environment, such as tuning out noise, may get in the way of learning at school.53

While the greatest impact is felt by children directly involved, family violence effects can also spill-over and indirectly affect peers and classmates.54

2. Effects on the brain

Exposure to family violence can affect many areas of the brain, and is associated with physical changes to it.55

During infancy and childhood, the Hypothalamic-Pituitary-Adrenal (HPA) axis, a vital stress response system,56 is developing making it vulnerable to adversity. The stress associated with family violence can dysregulate the developing HPA axis, resulting in either elevated or lowered levels of cortisol.57

Changes during this critical time of development may be lasting, and harder to treat if healthy functioning was never established.58 This is one of the ways in which, despite the absence of direct physical harm, family violence nevertheless harms children’s development.59

This is important to understand because while the effects of family violence on our youngest children have often been underestimated, their rate of development makes them particularly vulnerable to adversity during this time.60

Brain changes may be adaptive responses to highly stressed environments, but problematic in other environments.61

Different forms of adversity appear to specifically impact the brain regions involved in processing the experience. For example, one study found that seeing family violence was associated with changes in grey matter volume in parts of the visual cortex, as well as the pathway connecting the limbic system (involved in processing emotions) and visual systems.62

Some research suggests that there are sensitive periods where particular brain regions are most susceptible to adverse effects occurring during that time.63 These sensitive periods tend to be related to periods of high brain development.

There can be a delay between exposure to various forms of maltreatment, and noticeable differences in children’s brains, known as a silent period.64 This has important implications for the support of children, as lack of observable immediate effects may lead adults to mistakenly believe that a child has been unaffected or unharmed.

It’s not only physical violence that affects children’s brain development; verbal abuse between their caregivers can be harmful too.65

3. Social and emotional wellbeing

Adults recall their childhood exposure to family violence as distressing. Almost two thirds report being “a lot” or “extremely” upset. Their levels of distress were not affected by their age at the time, and nor did it differ whether the violence was threatened or actually occurred.66 This is worth noting, as it’s not just violent events themselves that affect children, but fear of such events happening is in itself harmful.

Children exposed to family violence are more likely to have poor mental health.67 Some of the areas in which these challenges can occur are discussed below.

The likelihood of psychosocial problems is increased, including internalising, externalising and trauma symptoms.68 Internalising issues include fearfulness, sadness, anxiety, depression and suicidality.69 Externalising difficulties include behaviours such as aggression, hyperactivity, and defiance, that affect the external environment.70

Social skills can also be affected, making friendships and other relationships more difficult.71 These social difficulties can affect many types of relationship, including with siblings, parent-child relationships, peers at school, as well as later romantic relationships.72 The risk of bullying is increased.73

If children have not had the opportunity to develop skills for handling a range of feelings, and they’ve seen that adults deal with difficulties by using violence, they may be poorly equipped to deal with life’s inevitable frustrations, and see violence as a useful tool.74

Exposure to family violence in childhood contributes to intergenerational cycles of violence. While not all affected children will perpetuate family violence when they are adults, they are more likely to do so.75 This risk can be reduced by early and effective supports.

For adults working with children and their families, looking at children’s individual reactions is important as there is no one way that children respond, and no one way to support them.76

4. Physical health

Most research on the effects of family violence has focused on mental health, but there can also be physical health effects.77 The fact that children are not directly physically hurt does not mean that they are not physically affected.

Children who’ve been exposed to family violence have more eating, sleeping and pain complaints,78 as well as reduced growth, increased tiredness, stomach issues, and headaches.79

Other consequences include increased risk-taking behaviour in adolescence and adulthood, such as smoking, substance misuse, and early sexual activity.80

The well-known Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) studies have found many links between various forms of childhood adversity, which includes family violence, and later poor physical health.81 It’s important to note that those who experience one type of adversity are frequently also exposed to other types as well, and that exposure to many forms of adversity increases the risk of poor health outcomes more than exposure to one type of adversity alone.82 Some of the health outcomes include heightened risk of heart disease and auto-immune diseases in adulthood.83

“By far the largest proportion of burden of disease due to ACEs arises from the cumulative effect of chronic exposure to multiple adversities whose lifelong consequences may start to become apparent only many years after exposure.”84

Understanding something of the research in this area is powerful; without it, it would be too easy to miss the effects of exposure to family violence in childhood, and their sometimes much later health effects.

In reality, physical health, mental health, brain development, the ability to get on with others, and to think and learn are all highly interconnected; impact in one of these areas is also likely to affect other areas of development.

Timing of Effects

Children don’t always show the effects of family violence immediately. As can occur with other forms of early adversity, adverse effects are not necessarily apparent in the short term but may appear later in development, following a silent period. The time frame may be months or years later.85 This makes it easy to miss the association between family violence and later issues, and caution is needed before assuming a child will not be affected because no short-term effects can be seen.86

Longitudinal studies help us see how this unfolds. In one such study children who were exposed to family violence before four years of age initially had similar levels of aggressive behaviour to children who were never exposed. However, by the time the children were eight years old, the levels of aggressive behaviour were significantly higher among those exposed to frequent family violence.87 This is supported by many other studies which found that as time passed the effects of family violence become stronger.88

It has been suggested that there is a need for early intervention to reduce the risk of later aggressive behaviour even if children do not appear to have problems initially.89

Family violence can lead to death

At its most extreme, family violence results in death. NZ figures show that in the seven years from January 2009 to December 2015, 92 deaths occurred as a result of violence between current or former partners.90 Many of these tragedies involved children.

This can have a devastating impact on children as with a single act they can lose both parents.91 The trauma of losing one parent through death, and the imprisonment of the other may be further added to if children are involved in court proceedings.92

It can also mean that a child’s home becomes a crime scene, limiting access to personal items, including those that could help comfort them at a very difficult time such as favourite toys or items that belonged to their deceased parent.93 Other consequences can include repeated disruptions across all areas of their lives, including where they live and go to school.

Two things that increase a child’s risk are seeing their parent killed, and previous violence exposure. Both of these factors are relatively common among exposed children; a large proportion of children (83%) who lost a parent through family violence had previously been exposed to violence or neglect in their home, which was often only discovered after the death of their parent.94

It’s important to note that “even very young children can ‘take in’ and remember details of a murder” despite their family thinking that they are too young, or were asleep, at the time.95 If it’s incorrectly assumed that a child has not been exposed, opportunities to support them to process their experiences may be missed.

Children themselves are also at risk of being seriously physically hurt or killed in family violence incidents.96 When a child dies as a result of violence, there has usually been previous violence between their parents.97 It is therefore important for those working with the adult victim to also consider the safety and needs of any children.98

What about siblings?

Violence between their parents can affect the relationships between brothers and sisters in a family, leading to more conflict and aggression between them.99

Some conflict between siblings is to be expected and provides opportunities to learn about and practice resolving disagreements.100 However, ongoing sibling conflict increases likely behaviour problems.101

Individual differences between siblings influence their outcomes following exposure to family violence.102 This means that no assumptions can be made about the effects on a child based on their siblings’ responses. One child in a family may seem to be doing quite well, while their sister or brother struggles.

Sibling differences also mean that the support needs of one child may not be the same as those of their sister or brother. How each child experiences and processes their experiences may differ.

One aspect of family violence that has been largely overlooked is the effects of witnessing violence towards a sibling, rather than towards a parent. One of the few studies exploring this found an increased risk for mood, anxiety and dissociative disorders.103

Pets can be harmed too

For many children, pets form an important part of their family, and they gain many benefits from these relationships.104 Close bonds with pets can help children when they are stressed, for example.105

Family violence often includes harming or killing animals.106 Children exposed to family violence are at higher risk of also being exposed to maltreatment of pets, which further increases their risk of poor outcomes.107

In NZ research with clients of Women’s Refuge, a third of mothers reported that their children had witnessed threats to harm or kill an animal. A further quarter reported their children had seen an animal hurt or killed.108 International research suggests this figure may be higher, with more than half the children exposed to family violence also exposed to animal cruelty.109

Women and their children often remain in a violent relationship because of safety concerns about their pets.110

What can help? Protective factors

It is important to note that, as with other forms of adversity, some children and adolescents function well despite exposure to family violence.111

Family support including stable connections with caring adults, pro-social peers and strong school support and community connections are protective, increasing the likelihood of positive outcomes.112 The presence of these relationship helps enhance resilience.

Children can be protected from serious consequences when their emotional needs are understood early on, they have stable, nurturing relationships and access to skilled professional supports as needed.113

It’s important to note that the dose-response effect applies to protective factors too. So the more experience children have of safe, nurturing, consistent relationships, the greater the chance they will enjoy positive outcomes, despite the risks they face.114

Individual Differences

Children can be affected regardless of the degree of exposure, but those facing high levels of family violence are at greater risk.115 This includes babies, who tend to have more trauma symptoms with increasing exposure.116

The age at which children are first exposed to family violence, as well as the cumulative amount of exposure, increase the risk of externalizing behaviour difficulties.117

A child’s own make-up also plays a role, “it is…not only what happened and when it happened to the young child that determines long-term outcome, it matters quite clearly who that child is, constitutionally”.118 A child’s genes contribute to differences in their stress responses systems. Their genes interact with experiences so that the same genes associated with positive outcomes for children raised in nurturing environments, can contribute to higher risk of poor health outcomes for those raised in harsh environments.119

Boys and girls have a similar risk of developing adjustment problems following exposure to family violence, however how they react might be different.120 For example, boys are more likely to develop externalising behaviour problems, girls are more likely to develop Internalising issues. Both girls and boys can have either, or both, types of issues.


Many children in Aotearoa are exposed to violence between their parents. Despite this violence not being aimed at children, they are still harmed by it. Absence of direct physical harm is not the same as the absence of all harm.

Multiple areas of development can be affected, including brain development, school achievement, mental and physical health. The adverse effects can be long-lasting. Being exposed to additional risks, such as poverty and other forms of violence further harms children’s development.

Importantly, it’s not only the incidents of violence, but also living with the threat of violence that is harmful to children.

The more children are exposed, the more likely they are to be harmed. So the earlier family violence is identified and appropriate supports put in place for children and their whānau, the more this potential for harm will be reduced.

Family violence is everyone’s business, we all have a role to play in our whānau and communities. “Children who are exposed to intimate partner violence are at significant risk for lifelong negative outcomes, and the consequences are felt widely in society.”121

If you are concerned about family violence, these organisations can help

Police 111
Oranga Tamariki 0508 FAMILY or 0508 326 459 free from any phone 24 hours a day, every day or see their website for more information
Shine helpline 0508 744 633 free from any phone 9am to11pm every day.
Women’s Refuge: 0800 REFUGE or 0800 733 843 free from any phone, 24 hours a day, every day.
Shakti: 0800 SHAKTI or 0800 742 584 Providing specialist cultural services for African, Asian and middle eastern women and their children. 24 hours a day, every day.
It’s Not Ok: 0800 456 450 Information line free from any phone, 9am to 11pm every day.


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This article was first published in Brainwave Review, Issue 31, Autumn 2020